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Tuesday, 02 December 2008

  • The Scholars: Law School Edition featuring Dawn!

    So now I am over the crazy part of applications and doing a few things. I wish I made youtube videos, but that would be a big waste of my time. But to alert you, dear readers, my law school application process is far from over.

    I have applied to 20 schools, and I receive snail mail from several schools quite often, sometimes with an offer for a fee waiver. I am also looking for jobs that will help me weather the financial pain of applications, especially since I just told my Ate, like a little kid complaining of a tummyache, "but my wallet hurts!"

    I have had moments where the anticipation just kills. You can see me doubling over or jumping deliriously in front of my mailbox quite often (or if you can't literally see me, you can imagine it, almost too easily).

    The other day I got a small envelope from Loyola Law School, and I thought, "oh God, a rejection letter already?" But upon opening it, it's just them wasting paper to tell me that they received my application, and that they've given me a tracking number that will become my student ID if I become a student at their school. Yes, I doubled over...from relief.

    Then the other day I got a big envelope from Thomas Jefferson, and it was a brochure and an inviation via fee waiver to apply. It's in California, why not? I will apply to you if you appear to be financially generous. You will be participants in a bidding war for me *tents fingers*

    But please, stay tuned, I'll most likely be receving letters in January!


    Coming up on The Scholars: The Law School Edition featuring Dawn

    Applications to waiver schools
    Financial Aid
    Dawn's Haggle Wars with Financial Aid packages
    Out of State?????

    And stay tuned for the final episode where YOU can be invited to Dawn's party on "The Scholars: Law School Edition"

Tuesday, 18 November 2008

  • Coulda Woulda Shoulda

    While in college I heard of this reality tv show that tracks several high school students and their processes of getting into college. In hindsight it felt nerve-wracking, but once I was in college, it didn't seem like a big deal after all.

    Especially when compared to professional school admissions.

    Let me give you a bit of a background. I don't come from a long history of professionals. I, just like all my other cousins, am a trailblazer, being one of the first few to aspire for professional school in my family. So there is a lot of fear, dread, and awe involved in the process, at least when I look at it. If there was one word to describe the law school application process for me, it would be "rollercoaster."

    It makes me wish that I blogged the play-by-play of my process, my ups, my downs, the formation of my personal statements, my writer's blocks, times when my morale ran dry, and times I just felt eager to power through. I set a personal goal to send in my applications before Thanksgiving. Give myself a reason to celebrate. And now that I'm almost done with most of my applications, it just feels too late to talk about it all.

    Maybe when I'm done with applications, I'll try to recap it all. Till then!

Monday, 03 November 2008

  • Oh, who to vote for?

    I'm not going to delve into the usual, "who will you vote for president?" Rather, I'm more concerned about the other people that are up for election, like Congress and the judges.

    Congress is elected by district, so they are more likely to be the one who should hear your personal concerns about society. They vote more often on issues than you as a voter ever will. And they can start things and make things happen in ways you couldn't imagine. They can introduce a bill that can become a law that works for you. But if you vote for somebody insensitive to your issues, then the exact opposite can happen.

    But one thing that I've only recently began to be serious about is voting for judges. Most of the time, judicial candidates run unopposed. This year, on my ballot, 4 offices are open, and each candidate is running against somebody else. Some of them have their own webpages, and for the most part, there's a "fast facts" type website that lists the basic things about them. Granted they're different facts that you can't exactly compare side-by-side with all the other judicial candidates, it's still informative. Here's a kicker though: all of them bring the same promises. Nearly all of them say, "I will be even-handed and fair in all my decisions." And chances are, they're all competent in their own way. What do you look for?

    You look for their advocacy efforts and see if they fall in line with what you want. If you want somebody that focuses on gangs, vote for the criminal gang prosecutor. If you want somebody with judicial experience, find somebody who's got a stellar record based on how many of their previous decisions were not overturned. You have to dig for their special interests and discern whether or not they're more likely to be on your side. Who knows, maybe one day you'll have to stand before them for something.

    I know for me, I think about going down their roads some day...I would want somebody to vote based on what I've aligned my career with since college. Besides, becoming a judge is a huge, huge thing!

    So get out there and vote. Congress and your district judges are your most palpable futures!

Thursday, 29 May 2008

  • Forget I asked.

    I find myself saying that phrase a lot, especially to my partner. Looking at it, I realize that my using that phrase often speaks volumes about my character. Whenever I tell somebody "forget I asked," it's like I have this pang of embarrassment that I wish I could just undo on the spot. I regret asking certain questions and asking for certain favors if I get answers I wish I didn't get. Silly, I know.

    I've got this crazy complex of not wanting to look stupid or desperate. Asking for favors makes me appear desperate and at the mercy of one person. If my inquiry isn't met with the desired result, then I feel stupid. Basically, it's a gamble. Which leads to my next thing.

    If I'm invested in some way, then I have to be more strategic about whom I ask. Every negative answer is like a discouraging strike against my resolve. So for me to say "forget I asked" is me taking back the gamble. It's a stupid and desperate 'undo,' an attempt to save face.

Monday, 03 March 2008

  • Coolest conversation ever

    So my parents were contemplating their future, and the subject of dual citizenship came up. Dad's all gung-ho about it while my mom pulls back the reins and begs him to think of the implications of dual citizenship.

    Mom: Think about it daddy, what happens if they tax all of your land from both countries?
    Dad: You know, Israelis are dual citizens.
    Mom: There are things to think about, you just don't sign up for it and get excited.
    Dad: That's true.
    Mom: Why don't you ask your cousin? He's a dual citizen.
    Me: Better yet, why don't you wait for me to be an attorney so I can give you the best advice on that?
    Dad: That's what I'm saying! *high fives me*

    I'm so used to thinking that my dad believes that all lawyers are liars...until you actually need them. Hah. Times like this remind me that I've got more than enough people believing that I can do it, and that I just have to believe in myself.

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    • State: California
    • Metro: Los Angeles
    • Birthday: 7/30/1986
    • Gender: Female
    • Member Since: 5/23/2005

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